tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4087404784156032971.post6655025975129756328..comments2024-03-15T00:21:57.800-07:00Comments on SON'S OF SOTHA.: Nothing doing.Jay188http://www.blogger.com/profile/10686392836651401564noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4087404784156032971.post-79908724455020607422017-04-17T02:57:40.330-07:002017-04-17T02:57:40.330-07:00Thankyou Dave and to you mate.Thankyou Dave and to you mate.Jay188https://www.blogger.com/profile/10686392836651401564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4087404784156032971.post-19357476895511029292017-04-13T16:24:59.003-07:002017-04-13T16:24:59.003-07:00I know what you mean, I think for the most part ho...I know what you mean, I think for the most part hobbyists/gamers are an awkward bunch it's one of the reasons I need to blog because I know my own voice and it's much easier to share in written form. It's actually quite difficult when someone comes up and talks to you about it, well it's awkward and then it's not, but I digress.<br /><br />I realised I may never have quite had the relationship with my Dad as I could have had but situations got in the way prior to his death that made things not always simple. That's not to say we didn't get on, we did I just know it could have been better. It was what it was and I've come to terms with it 4 years on. funnily enough I see more of him in myself in the mirror as I get older which is both heart warming and sad at the same time.<br /><br />I also seem to be repeating some of the mistakes he made with me, with my own youngest [11] but as your situation proves they grow up, become men in their own right and your relationship can change. I know I'm experiencing a new level of respect from my 15 year old. <br /><br />I can only wish you all the best.40kaddicthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12763647828123242837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4087404784156032971.post-63974754827045811442017-04-13T03:39:27.786-07:002017-04-13T03:39:27.786-07:00Thankyou Dave, I'm sorry to hear that your Dad...Thankyou Dave, I'm sorry to hear that your Dad was killed, That sounds so bad, I cant imagine what that did to you Dave ...dont know what to say mate, Im so sorry.<br /><br />It is easier to jot things down, you know your thoughts, To be honest I find it hard to talk to people at the best of times nevermind about my mum and whats happened, I'm glad you where able get things off your chest with your brother about your Dad.<br /><br />Liam my oldest son is such a man at twenty so much more than i ever was at that age I'm very proud of him, I think it is stronger, your right.<br /><br />I think things will get better its just sometimes i think if i just had a few more days with her, We could talk and sort things out you know.<br /><br />Thanks Dave.<br />Jay188https://www.blogger.com/profile/10686392836651401564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4087404784156032971.post-34945267955853055202017-04-13T03:22:56.541-07:002017-04-13T03:22:56.541-07:00Cheers Poops, Its really painfully but its early d...Cheers Poops, Its really painfully but its early days for me i think, Thankyou for your kind words.Jay188https://www.blogger.com/profile/10686392836651401564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4087404784156032971.post-91622322431042960472017-04-13T03:20:58.926-07:002017-04-13T03:20:58.926-07:00Thankyou for your kind words Sebastian.
Scythes R...Thankyou for your kind words Sebastian.<br /><br />Scythes Rock!! I shall be back one day.Jay188https://www.blogger.com/profile/10686392836651401564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4087404784156032971.post-57853245614701386812017-04-13T03:18:06.873-07:002017-04-13T03:18:06.873-07:00Hi Siph and thankyou for the little message for my...Hi Siph and thankyou for the little message for my mum, Means alot.<br /><br />Sorry you lost your dad so early, you still think of all the good times with him and i think thats great, I do too with my Mum things pop into my mind that i havn't thought of for years, I'm sure he would approve of your hobby, I still play with Lego but i have two at 6 and 8 yrs so I'm getting away with it ;)<br />Jay188https://www.blogger.com/profile/10686392836651401564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4087404784156032971.post-33846219983263182652017-04-13T00:45:53.849-07:002017-04-13T00:45:53.849-07:00You are right to get this out Jamie. When my Dad w...You are right to get this out Jamie. When my Dad was killed sharing my thoughts and feelings at the time on my blog really helped. It also gave an opportunity for my brother to see how I felt, easier for me to open up on 'paper' than face to face. <br /><br />The solace you have now is the support of your family and with your son stepping up that will only make your relationship stronger. <br /><br />My condolences, things do get better. 40kaddicthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12763647828123242837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4087404784156032971.post-66176112108617828152017-04-11T22:47:07.040-07:002017-04-11T22:47:07.040-07:00Sorry to hear mate, you have my empathy and best o...Sorry to hear mate, you have my empathy and best of wishes to you and your family.Poops mcgeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10831555877753756541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4087404784156032971.post-81741711611996734142017-04-11T16:34:02.071-07:002017-04-11T16:34:02.071-07:00hmm, google account doesn't show my site: www....hmm, google account doesn't show my site: www.the-scythes.com.Sebastianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13361613733527207392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4087404784156032971.post-48368408389037575602017-04-11T16:32:36.634-07:002017-04-11T16:32:36.634-07:00My condolences and positive vibes from Middle Eart...My condolences and positive vibes from Middle Earth New Zealand, here's to keeping rampaging kids in line, remembering fiercely and the future. :) - your 'Sothan brother', Sebastian.Sebastianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13361613733527207392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4087404784156032971.post-87877535440411049002017-04-11T09:04:57.119-07:002017-04-11T09:04:57.119-07:00Rest easy Jamie's Mum. Jamie, perfectly normal...Rest easy Jamie's Mum. Jamie, perfectly normal feelings and get it off your chest, I lost my Father when I was a teen and I still think of him in the quiet times, I think he would have approved of this hobby, he liked buying me Lego. At least you had time to say goodbye and prepare the children, that's good. Hobby again when your mojo returns fella, we'll be here to read it :) Siph_Horridushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07159625883822754521noreply@blogger.com